<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[In Case I'm Murdered LLC]]></title><description><![CDATA[We help women survive scary exes.]]></description><link>https://www.incaseimmurdered.com/blog</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Wed, 22 Jul 2026 23:22:42 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://www.incaseimmurdered.com/blog-feed.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[Creating an Emotionally Safe Home for Your Kids: A Guide for Single Moms and Survivors]]></title><description><![CDATA[Children who have experienced trauma —whether from domestic violence, divorce, or instability— need more than just physical safety.  They...]]></description><link>https://www.incaseimmurdered.com/post/creating-an-emotionally-safe-home-for-your-kids-a-guide-for-single-moms-and-survivors</link><guid isPermaLink="false">67dc477f131c710c70874196</guid><category><![CDATA[Parenting and DV]]></category><pubDate>Sat, 29 Mar 2025 11:07:20 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/91aacd846f47f5275b4c59ae9ad14153.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_850,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator></dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[How to Build Credit After Abuse: A Step-by-Step Guide for DV Survivors]]></title><description><![CDATA[Rebuilding credit after leaving an abusive relationship can feel overwhelming, especially if your abuser controlled your finances or...]]></description><link>https://www.incaseimmurdered.com/post/how-to-build-credit-after-abuse-a-step-by-step-guide-for-survivors</link><guid isPermaLink="false">67dc3b85167e7b19c69df35b</guid><category><![CDATA[Finance and DV]]></category><pubDate>Sat, 29 Mar 2025 10:01:16 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/bf60394f9a714765992cf8fe91c12cbc.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator></dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[How to Talk to Your Kids About an Abusive Parent: A Compassionate and Honest Approach]]></title><description><![CDATA[When your child has an abusive parent, one of the hardest challenges is knowing what to say. You want to protect them, but you can’t...]]></description><link>https://www.incaseimmurdered.com/post/how-to-talk-to-your-kids-about-an-abusive-parent-a-compassionate-and-honest-approach</link><guid isPermaLink="false">67dc4a2ec4c8d64ec977ae26</guid><category><![CDATA[Parenting and DV]]></category><pubDate>Fri, 28 Mar 2025 17:07:10 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/11062b_31e0d99a52414c58be52e45bb12ee972~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator></dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Leaving an Abuser Safely: A Step-by-Step Guide]]></title><description><![CDATA[Leaving an abusive relationship is one of the most dangerous times for a survivor. Preparation and safety planning are critical. This guide provides actionable steps to help you leave safely and start rebuilding your life. 1. Recognizing the Need to Leave Leaving an abuser isn’t just about escaping a toxic relationship—it’s about survival. 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Stalkers often use technology to track, monitor, or intimidate their victims, and hackers can exploit weaknesses to steal information or gain access to private accounts. Whether you're leaving an abusive relationship or simply want to lock down your online presence, these essential digital security tips will help you stay safe. 1. Secure...]]></description><link>https://www.incaseimmurdered.com/post/digital-security-tips-protecting-yourself-from-stalkers-hackers</link><guid isPermaLink="false">67dc219f05013e1c5aace967</guid><category><![CDATA[Technology Safety]]></category><pubDate>Tue, 25 Mar 2025 04:56:15 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/72a1ac5b17cf42d99c4328c52b877ca1.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator></dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Single Mom Survival Guide: Practical Tips for Thriving, Not Just Surviving]]></title><description><![CDATA[Being a single mom is one of the hardest jobs in the world. You’re managing finances, parenting, household responsibilities, and often...]]></description><link>https://www.incaseimmurdered.com/post/single-mom-survival-guide-practical-tips-for-thriving-not-just-surviving</link><guid isPermaLink="false">67dc499ba412eb0302e531dd</guid><category><![CDATA[Parenting and DV]]></category><pubDate>Tue, 25 Mar 2025 04:38:07 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/11062b_b63f73c8987a4b31b306077dfd525fcf~mv2.jpeg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator></dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Self-Care and Avoiding Burnout as a Single Mom: A Practical Guide]]></title><description><![CDATA[Being a single mom is an all-consuming role. 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(The Hotline) Financial abuse is a hidden form of...]]></description><link>https://www.incaseimmurdered.com/post/financial-control-the-hidden-weapon-in-abusive-relationships</link><guid isPermaLink="false">67a9f4cf2cd7ef01ddd86435</guid><category><![CDATA[Finance and DV]]></category><pubDate>Mon, 10 Feb 2025 12:45:08 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/083edc_21b42f71c0024a6c95a70bff75e67add~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_720,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator></dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Mel B’s Story: What Domestic Violence Looks Like]]></title><description><![CDATA[Melanie Brown, also known as Mel B from the Spice Girls, has bravely shared her story about surviving domestic abuse.  Through interviews...]]></description><link>https://www.incaseimmurdered.com/post/mel-b-s-story-what-domestic-violence-looks-like</link><guid isPermaLink="false">67924a9b7a828687c60f3b7b</guid><category><![CDATA[Domestic Violence]]></category><category><![CDATA[Romantic Relationship Abuse Basics]]></category><pubDate>Thu, 23 Jan 2025 13:56:46 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/083edc_09bdd9f11f62479fad1b7710ba00eb56~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_720,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator></dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Home Security for Women: Essential Tools, Tips, and Products for Safety]]></title><description><![CDATA[This article features recommended home security products, each type has two options to help meet women where they are financially. ]]></description><link>https://www.incaseimmurdered.com/post/home-security-for-women-essential-tools-tips-and-products-for-safety</link><guid isPermaLink="false">678a0d260f2a72cbfa94636c</guid><category><![CDATA[Home Security]]></category><pubDate>Fri, 17 Jan 2025 07:56:35 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/11062b_6caac0031e964855b8d3ba9bd8beb234~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator></dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Za'Zell Preston from Romance to Murder]]></title><description><![CDATA[I'm not going to type out the tribute videos that I create.  You can hear about the tragic story of Za'Zell Preston and the insane Christmas 2011 incident by clicking on the video below. Stay safe!]]></description><link>https://www.incaseimmurdered.com/post/za-zell-preston-from-romance-to-murder</link><guid isPermaLink="false">60952d398f521e0016c0f5c1</guid><category><![CDATA[IPH Case Studies]]></category><pubDate>Mon, 03 May 2021 05:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/083edc_3b589376dbaa4159b17fbfa323e94662~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_348,h_520,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator></dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Jessica Dapolito and Family Tribute: Intimate Partner Homicide Stories]]></title><description><![CDATA[I'm not going to type out the tribute videos.  You can hear about the tragic stories of Jessica Dapolito, Michelle Masse, and Kelly Winslow by clicking on the video below. Stay safe!]]></description><link>https://www.incaseimmurdered.com/post/jessica-dapolito-and-family-tribute-intimate-partner-homicide-stories</link><guid isPermaLink="false">60952ccaea466f0015845ee1</guid><category><![CDATA[IPH Case Studies]]></category><pubDate>Mon, 26 Apr 2021 05:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/083edc_93838db811c54ec5bb9f27c76f2eb0c2~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_331,h_217,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator></dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Romance to Murder - Brianna Johnson Tribute]]></title><description><![CDATA[At this point, I'm not going to type out the tribute videos that I create.  You can hear about the tragic story of YouTuber Brianna Johnson by clicking on the video below. Stay safe!]]></description><link>https://www.incaseimmurdered.com/post/romance-to-murder-brianna-johnson-tribute</link><guid isPermaLink="false">60952bd9b425bf001567a5e1</guid><category><![CDATA[IPH Case Studies]]></category><pubDate>Mon, 15 Mar 2021 05:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/083edc_544c1c96f1fe4fdda72aaf2494c67c06~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_444,h_720,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator></dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Valentine Letter to Survivors]]></title><description><![CDATA[Dear Survivors, You are here!  You have survived!  Happy Valentine’s day from my heart to yours! We heal at different levels. ...]]></description><link>https://www.incaseimmurdered.com/post/valentine-letter-to-survivors</link><guid isPermaLink="false">602a8d224717e00017c14aa4</guid><pubDate>Sun, 14 Feb 2021 06:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/11062b_0de6cd920a204c87af6402d3ca8c4ef5~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator></dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Valentine Letter to Myself]]></title><description><![CDATA[Dear Self, It's Valentine’s Day!  I want to let you know that first person to appreciate and love you is you. You once believed in the...]]></description><link>https://www.incaseimmurdered.com/post/valentine-letter-to-yourself</link><guid isPermaLink="false">602a8a702c97e700174374d3</guid><pubDate>Sun, 14 Feb 2021 06:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/7b142432c02849f5987bb20b236731a3.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator></dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Personal Safety Book Review - When Violence is the Answer by Tim Larkin]]></title><description><![CDATA[If you would rather watch/listen than read, you can watch this video. I'm sure that I will eventually review resources that aren't books, but at this point, books have been the most helpful thing to me.  Knowledge is power when you act on it! Today we're going to look at When Violence Is The Answer: Learning How To Do What It Takes When Your Life Is At Stake  by Tim Larkin.  It was life-altering for me.  I love this book!  I haven't read it over and over again - it's not key reading for me...]]></description><link>https://www.incaseimmurdered.com/post/personal-safety-book-review-when-violence-is-the-answer-by-tim-larkin</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6066198ac90edd001545ad1c</guid><category><![CDATA[Recommended Resources]]></category><pubDate>Mon, 25 Jan 2021 06:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/083edc_be74474a84e34752b4d91c723d4d1464~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_720,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator></dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Al-anon VS Trauma Therapy]]></title><description><![CDATA[(If you would rather watch/listen than read, you can watch  the video below.) If you're joining me for the first time, welcome!  My name is April Hardy.  If you are returning, welcome back! Last week,  we talked about the best way to find a counselor  that's going to be good for you specifically and individually.  I mentioned that if money was an issue then there were a couple of different options.  1. You can go look at churches.  That is a free option for a lot of people, but some may not...]]></description><link>https://www.incaseimmurdered.com/post/al-anon-vs-trauma-therapy</link><guid isPermaLink="false">600c873040ea9b00174bc034</guid><category><![CDATA[Recommended Resources]]></category><pubDate>Mon, 18 Jan 2021 06:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/083edc_2f09d3f1b838469b980e3b875d331792~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_720,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator></dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[How to Choose the Right Counselor for You]]></title><description><![CDATA[If you would rather watch/listen than read, you can watch  the video below. Often when people decided that they want a counselor, they...]]></description><link>https://www.incaseimmurdered.com/post/how-to-choose-the-right-counselor-for-you</link><guid isPermaLink="false">600c86e6cd545a001705fb12</guid><pubDate>Mon, 11 Jan 2021 06:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/083edc_772ba95813134820be1c19b60bf00937~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_720,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator></dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Domestic Violence Survivors' New Years Goals for 2021]]></title><description><![CDATA[Happy New Year! If you would rather watch/listen than read, you can watch  the video below. I cannot believe that it's already 2021!  It...]]></description><link>https://www.incaseimmurdered.com/post/domestic-violence-survivors-new-years-goals-for-2021</link><guid isPermaLink="false">600c869884bfa30017e1e89a</guid><pubDate>Mon, 04 Jan 2021 06:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8YnlwhZDKhU" length="0" type="video"/><dc:creator></dc:creator></item></channel></rss>