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Creating an Emotionally Safe Home for Your Kids: A Guide for Single Moms and Survivors
Children who have experienced trauma —whether from domestic violence, divorce, or instability— need more than just physical safety. They...
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Mar 295 min read
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How to Build Credit After Abuse: A Step-by-Step Guide for DV Survivors
Rebuilding credit after leaving an abusive relationship can feel overwhelming, especially if your abuser controlled your finances or...
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Mar 293 min read
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How to Talk to Your Kids About an Abusive Parent: A Compassionate and Honest Approach
When your child has an abusive parent, one of the hardest challenges is knowing what to say. You want to protect them, but you can’t...
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Mar 285 min read
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Leaving an Abuser Safely: A Step-by-Step Guide
Leaving an abusive relationship is one of the most dangerous times for a survivor. Preparation and safety planning are critical. This guide provides actionable steps to help you leave safely and start rebuilding your life. 1. Recognizing the Need to Leave Leaving an abuser isn’t just about escaping a toxic relationship—it’s about survival. If you feel controlled, threatened, or physically harmed, your safety is at risk. You deserve a life free from fear. 2. Safety Planning Be
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Mar 253 min read
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Digital Security Tips: Protecting Yourself from Stalkers & Hackers
In today’s world, digital security is just as important as physical security, especially for women dealing with stalking, harassment, or online threats. Stalkers often use technology to track, monitor, or intimidate their victims, and hackers can exploit weaknesses to steal information or gain access to private accounts. Whether you're leaving an abusive relationship or simply want to lock down your online presence, these essential digital security tips will help you stay sa
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Mar 243 min read
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Single Mom Survival Guide: Practical Tips for Thriving, Not Just Surviving
Being a single mom is one of the hardest jobs in the world. You’re managing finances, parenting, household responsibilities, and often...
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Mar 243 min read
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Self-Care and Avoiding Burnout as a Single Mom: A Practical Guide
Being a single mom is an all-consuming role. You’re balancing work, parenting, finances, and daily responsibilities—often without a...
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Mar 244 min read
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How to Secure Your Home on a Budget: Affordable Safety Tips for Single Moms & Survivors
If you’re a single mom or survivor of an abusive relationship, securing your home is a top priority—but expensive security systems aren’t...
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Mar 245 min read
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Financial Control: The Hidden Weapon in Abusive Relationships
Did you know that financial abuse occurs in up to 99% of domestic violence cases? Â (The Hotline) Financial abuse is a hidden form of...
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Feb 102 min read
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Mel B’s Story: What Domestic Violence Looks Like
Melanie Brown, also known as Mel B from the Spice Girls, has bravely shared her story about surviving domestic abuse. Through interviews...
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Jan 232 min read
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Home Security for Women: Essential Tools, Tips, and Products for Safety
This article features recommended home security products, each type has two options to help meet women where they are financially.
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Jan 174 min read
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Za'Zell Preston from Romance to Murder
I'm not going to type out the tribute videos that I create. You can hear about the tragic story of Za'Zell Preston and the insane Christmas 2011 incident by clicking on the video below. Stay safe!
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May 2, 20211 min read
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Jessica Dapolito and Family Tribute: Intimate Partner Homicide Stories
I'm not going to type out the tribute videos. You can hear about the tragic stories of Jessica Dapolito, Michelle Masse, and Kelly Winslow by clicking on the video below. Stay safe!
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Apr 25, 20211 min read
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Romance to Murder - Brianna Johnson Tribute
At this point, I'm not going to type out the tribute videos that I create. You can hear about the tragic story of YouTuber Brianna Johnson by clicking on the video below. Stay safe!
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Mar 14, 20211 min read
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Valentine Letter to Survivors
Dear Survivors, You are here! You have survived! Happy Valentine’s day from my heart to yours! We heal at different levels. ...
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Feb 14, 20212 min read
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Valentine Letter to Myself
Dear Self, It's Valentine’s Day! I want to let you know that first person to appreciate and love you is you. You once believed in the...
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Feb 14, 20211 min read
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Personal Safety Book Review - When Violence is the Answer by Tim Larkin
If you would rather watch/listen than read, you can watch this video. I'm sure that I will eventually review resources that aren't books, but at this point, books have been the most helpful thing to me. Knowledge is power when you act on it! Today we're going to look at When Violence Is The Answer: Learning How To Do What It Takes When Your Life Is At Stake by Tim Larkin. It was life-altering for me. I love this book! I haven't read it over and over again - it's not key
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Jan 25, 202110 min read
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Al-anon VS Trauma Therapy
(If you would rather watch/listen than read, you can watch the video below.) If you're joining me for the first time, welcome! My name is April Hardy. If you are returning, welcome back! Last week, we talked about the best way to find a counselor that's going to be good for you specifically and individually. I mentioned that if money was an issue then there were a couple of different options. 1. You can go look at churches. That is a free option for a lot of people, b
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Jan 18, 202111 min read
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How to Choose the Right Counselor for You
If you would rather watch/listen than read, you can watch the video below. Often when people decided that they want a counselor, they...
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Jan 11, 20219 min read
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Domestic Violence Survivors' New Years Goals for 2021
Happy New Year! If you would rather watch/listen than read, you can watch the video below. I cannot believe that it's already 2021! It...
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Jan 4, 20213 min read
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