Planning for the next year has never crossed my mind before the end of 2020. I realized how important it is to believe in something I can...

Hey guys! Welcome back! (If you would rather watch/listen than read, you can watch the video HERE.) Since it is Thanksgiving time in...

Welcome back! If you would rather watch/listen than read, you can watch the video below. In the last article, we talked about 4...

Welcome back! If you would rather watch/listen than read, you can watch the video below. Gaslighting is something that a lot of people...

I'm not going to write an article here because this week's video is literally a reading of chapter 8 of my book In Case I'm Murdered. ...

If you would rather watch/listen than read, you can find the video to this article HERE. Intimate partner homicide... We've been talking...

If you would rather watch/listen than read, you can find the video to this article HERE . If you start to pay attention, you'll notice that reporters, when they're reporting on intimate partner homicide or murder by somebody's partner or ex, they talk about how senseless it was and what a tragedy it was and how nobody saw this coming. They like to interview people that knew the killer very little or saw them around town and those people are always like, "They were such a nic

I created a YouTube video tribute for women I was able to find who were victims of intimate partner homicide. You can watch it HERE. ...

If you would rather watch/listen than read, you can find the video to this article HERE . Psychological abuse (also known as mental or emotional abuse) involves a person’s attempts to frighten, control, or isolate you. There are many, many strategies! We’re going to talk about some of them here. If you want to learn about more tactics, be sure to click the link at the end to get my list of many more! You can’t spot ‘em when they happen if you don’t know they exist! In thi

Does the fact that you had sex with somebody before mean that you have given permission this time and the next time? Can you be raped by...

If you would rather watch/listen than read, you can find the video to this article HERE. The most common question I've heard about...

Do you wonder if you're in an abusive relationship? Maybe you already believe you are and just need confirmation, but maybe you're not...

It's the most common question when talking about domestic violence, "Why doesn't she just leave?". While I'm certainly not encouraging...

Emergency bags (aka Go-Bags) are important. If you need to run from your home in an emergency, having a bag ready with some clothes,...

Whether you're a young adult just getting on your feet, someone who has been in an relationship that included financial abuse, someone...

Personal note: I know that I haven't done well at updating blog posts. I apologize. I'm working on improving my service to you all. I...

Her name was Aliyah Terry.  The book that Aliyah co-wrote,  The Queen Xperience , was set to come out August 4th, 2019. She was found stabbed to death in her home on July 2nd, 2019. According to the news article , nineteen 911 calls had been made from Aliyah's home in the year before her murder.  Three of them were specifically domestic violence related and one was assault with a deadly weapon "related." RIP Aliyah Terry North Carolina

Gaslighting is a form of manipulation that sows seeds of doubt into a person, making them question their own memory, perceptions, and...

This morning I am angry. I'm angry more often than I will share, but today I'm going to. The injustices that abuse victims have to...